-MISUNDERSTOOD- . –MISMATCH-

-MISUNDERSTOOD-.-MISMATCH-

Whenever a couple argues, most of the time its causes by Misunderstanding.

She got her right point and he got his too**

Its HARD to draw up a clear picture on Who is RIGHT and Who is WRONG!!!

And i found that the sequence of Argument usually looks as such –

It started with a different point of view from the couple on the same incident…

Argument starts…

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Cool WAR…

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Argue AGAIN…

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And then…the SOLUTION is…
One of the them give up and apologize, Quarrel end, the other part WIN –

*but it doesn’t mean that the one who give up really understand wat’s the problem between them,

he/she just thinking that, “aiya…the only solution is JUST BY SAYING SORRY to her/him !!!”

“I’m wrong baby, I’m so sorry that I hurt you!!!”
=HAPPY ENDING=

BUT take note, it’s a [CYCLE], things will happen over and over again...

and the [SOLUTION part] happens only for relationship that started in short-term…

**things change when relationship comes into Long-TERM,

whereby two part will stand hard for their own point, just wait for the other part to GIVE UP and APOLOGIZE:
*sorry for using the acc term of Short term n Long term…hehee…cause hv no idea of using other better words…

YES!!! its NORMAL for every couple to argue ‘once in awhile’ – Theory shows that, relationship will improve by argument ~

BUT!!!

Too many of ARGUMENT is it = MISMATCH ???
When Come to this point, should the couple start consider of Breaking Up??

Perhaps, this is the common question come to every couple's mind when they got serious argument ~
**of course not ALL couple will be like wat I’ve mentioned…

However, i can just conclude that,

LOVE is a mystery yet hard thing~